Wednesday, May 27, 2015

Why hello, Anonymous!

Last night, some anonymous comments were delivered to my inbox. They were the usual variety of the like, "You're fat and cruel and a mean bully and a HORRIBLE PERSON!!!" Obviously, I totally believed every word and am going to completely change who I am RIGHT NOW!!! Oh wait, no I'm not. In fact, I'm going to address the only point that I think I haven't addressed before, something I hear often...this idea that I feel I'm always right.

You know what? It's fucking true. I believe 100% of the time that I am 100% right!

But my question is, why don't you? I mean, don't you work hard to be a good friend, a good sibling, a good employee, a good parent, a good whatever? Do you spend your days trying to fill your life with stuff you love? Do you try to treat people as you would like to be treated?

Because I do.


I know, I know, I'm a big, mean, asshole who fucking sucks and tears people down with her cruelty...which I call honesty, but really it's just my bullshit, right? Yep, that's been said to me. And I don't care.

I spend most days walking around feeling pretty damn good about myself and the things I've said, even if they get me blocked from someone's Twitter or garner anonymous comments on my blog. Because I like myself. I've worked hard to be the person I am. I try to be kind and generous and giving and also to constantly call out all of the bullshit in the world. Because I truly believe that if more people were like me, then the world would be a better place, and I'm not afraid to tell you that.

I don't care if you think that makes me sound insane. (Or like a fat white girl who is trying to be politically correct.)


I don't care what you think. AND NEITHER SHOULD YOU! For fuck's sake, what the hell are you doing with your life if you don't feel like you are doing it right?!! Please, fucking join me in this insanity of believing in who you are and standing up for who you are and not giving a shit that people want to call you out on "thinking you're right all the time"! If you are living your life the way you want to and you believe in the decisions you are making and the strength of your character, then stand up to anyone and fully admit that you believe you are never wrong! It is ok to believe in yourself!

Even if it means that an anonymous commenter will try to tear you down, by calling you "a huge fucking waste of space." Ignore that shit. Stand up. Believe you are right. Tell people so. Don't back down. Fuck all the haters, because you need to be you.

In the meantime, I'm gonna be over here, believing in myself and all the craziness that entails.


  1. I love how confident you are in your skin! not many people can be as real as you. Your awesome! xx

    1. Aww girl, thank you! I'm still new to your blog (got you over there on the sidebar so I can read you on the regular), but I'm definitely gonna comment soonly, I promise! Thanks for coming around and leaving comments. I really love reading them!